im having trouble, loading in xml and using what is in the xml as the links for my buttons. can someone help me with this?

Code:
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?> 
  <xmltest> 
	  	<links>
        <link name="home" url="home.html"></link>
       <link name="news" url="news.html"></link> 
       <link name="meets" url="meets.html"></link> 
       <link name="roster" url="roster.html"></link> 
       <link name="schedule" url="schedule.html"></link>
	   <link name="alumni" url="alumni.php"></link>
	   <link name="photogallery" url="photogallery.html"></link>
	   <link name="links" url="links.html"></link>
	   <link name="forum" url="forum/"></link>
	</links>
  </xmltest>
there is my xml and i dont have any flash i know know how to do it... it is trying to load it into the buttons url. please help i have know idea what im doing but i need this feature. thanks.