Trade Gone Bad- I want my speakers or a refund...
I'm not trying to start a flame war or a name calling bout. I'm posting this thread in an effort to get what I feel is rightfully mine and to let others know of my difficulties in hope to avoid future problems with trades.
Ok here's the deal:
Back on March 29th I contacted Azn4sportz in response to his For Sale ad (http://www.sharkyforums.com/showthre...hreadid=123001) about a pair of Altec Lansing ACS33 Speakers he was selling for $30. They are usu. around $50new these were $30used. I contacted him and he was quick to respond and work out the details with me. He gave me the addy to send paypal to and I sent it that day (3-29-02)
No problem.. payment accepted and the waiting game began. On April 5th(7days later) I hadn't heard anything yet so I sent an email asking if he had gotten the payment ok and if/when it was shipped. This is where it gets fun: Got a response back saying that the email addy (from the paypal receipt) was not the sellers email. He had in fact used his friends Paypal account to make the transaction. But the friend said that he had gotten the $$ and would pass along my message.
4 days later I get a message from the seller saying that it was in the mail.
on the 15th of April - still no sign so I sent another email asking how it was sent etc. I got no reply. bugged his friend again and it began to be like pulling teeth to get a response. None of which were over a few words long and never answered exactly what I had asked.
We carried on like this for a while.. I would send an email trying to get specific info and he would wait several days to reply and then his replies wouldn't answer my questions. i would reply to that and ... you get the picture. poor communication.
and me.. no $$ and no speakers.
Then I got a strange PM that was extremely cryptic- but basically asked if I was the one who bought the speakers.. I think.. VERY cryptic. I PM'd back- no reply.
Next I got an angry email asking me if I was pulling a hoax because he had read about people that would say they never got their order just to ruin someone and try and get free stuff and he was 'pretty sure' he mailed the package and he wanted me to 'stop bugging' him and go away.
Sent off one last email (probably 6-7 over the month -is that bugging?) which was basically a rebut. saying that I was sorry he thought I was trying to scam him but his emails and PM were cryptic and never answered my questions thoroughly nor did I ever get the product. And how could he be 'pretty sure' he sent it.. he either did or he didn't. And that was it.
Another email (now over 1 month passed) telling him I either wanted a refund or the speakers I paid for and he begged for more time(maybe they're lost in the mail).. I gave him close to another week. Still no sign.. Told him the deadline was up and restated my case.
He said he'd give me 1/2 of what I paid him.
I asked for advice from on Anandtech(http://forums.anandtech.com/messagev...ighlight_key=y)((I'm under 'ripthesystem' on that forum)) and everyone agrees it is the Sellers responsibility to make the trade go right. They suggested I contact the Trollhunters and the Mods here and I have done both and the TH suggested that I go public here.
He hasn't responded to my latest email and no speakers and no $$.
I see however that he is still actively trading on the board and I want others to be aware of the situation.
thanks
Big Black