okay what i did was just get a new hdd . INSTALLED Xp and then hooked up my evil HDD as slave and voila, it wokred . so it must have been the software gltich
GA P35-DS3L
Intel E6850 C2D
Trancend aXe Ram 1066 2gb 5-5-5-15
8800gt
omega 500w psu
1xsata hdd
2xide hdd
1x sata dvd